Are you in need of some help cleaning and maintaining a headstone or gravestone? We’ve put together a comprehensive guide to help you through the process.
From removing moss and mould to renovating and repairing, everything you need to know is here. With this guide, you’ll be able to keep your headstone or gravestone in top condition and pass it on for generations.
So, let’s get started and get your loved ones headstone or gravestone looking its best.
Things to Do Before Cleaning a Headstone
Before beginning the process of cleaning a headstone, it’s important to take a few preliminary steps.
First, be sure you have the necessary permission.
Next, inspect the condition of the headstone and identify its material. This will help you determine the best cleaning methods for the headstone.
Make sure you have permission to clean the headstone
You should always check to make sure you have permission to clean the headstone before beginning the process. If the headstone is honouring a family member or direct ancestor, you likely have the correct permission. If not, it’s best to do some research to find the family of the deceased and ask if they’re comfortable with the cleaning or request permission from the cemetery directly.
Remember that cleaning a headstone is about showing respect and love for those who’ve passed, so make sure you have all the necessary permission before beginning the process.
Inspect the Condition of the Headstone
It’s important to inspect the condition of the headstone before cleaning it. Check that the headstone is still safely erected and doesn’t pose any danger during the process. If it’s been there for a long period of time, make sure that it’s stable in the ground.
Look for any visible cracks, flaking areas, delamination, or a brittle and crumbled appearance on the marble or granite surface. It’s also essential to observe any moss or lichen growth.
If the headstone is loose or leaning, hire specialists to re-erect it. If there are signs of deterioration, consider investing in a headstone cleaning or restoration service.
Identify the headstone material
Once you’ve inspected the condition of the headstone, it’s important to identify what material it’s made from. Most commonly, headstones are made from granite, limestone, sandstone, marble, or slate. Knowing which material is used allows you to choose the appropriate headstone cleaner and cleaning solution.
For example, marble headstones require different cleaning solutions than those used on granite headstones. Therefore, it’s essential to identify the material in order to properly clean and maintain it. If you’re not sure of the material, you may need to consult a memorial specialist.
With the right knowledge and care, you can keep your loved one’s memorial looking beautiful for years to come.
What you need to clean a headstone
To begin cleaning a headstone, you’ll need to gather the necessary items.
- A bucket and clean water
- Gloves suitable for use while cleaning
- Soft clean rags
- A wooden or plastic spatula or a non-metal scraper
- A gentle, non-metallic brush designed for soft scrubbing
- A toothbrush for cleaning grout
These supplies will provide the best way to clean a headstone, whether it’s marble or another material.
How To Clean Marble Headstones
For marble headstones, cleaning should be done with extra care and consideration due to its softer quality. To keep your marble headstone looking pristine, follow these five steps.
- Soak the headstone in water for 15 minutes while keeping it wet with additional water.
- Use a wooden scraper to gently remove debris from the stone, making sure to be especially careful around engravings.
- Next, liberally apply a cleaning product and leave it to soak for 10 minutes.
- With a soft brush, gently scrub areas that need extra attention, using a smaller brush for tighter areas.
- Finally, thoroughly rinse the marble headstone and dry it with a clean rag.
Cleaning marble headstones is a delicate process, so take the time to do it right and your headstone will stay looking beautiful for years to come.
How To Clean Granite Headstones
Cleaning granite headstones requires a bit of extra care and attention due to their increased durability. To do so, use a plastic scraper, undiluted stone cleaner, soft bristled brush, and a small grout brush or toothbrush.
- Start by soaking the headstone in water for several minutes.
- Then, scrape away any debris and vegetation with the scraper.
- Apply the stone cleaner and leave it to soak for 10 minutes.
- Next, use the brush to gently scrub the surface in a circular motion, rinsing often.
- Finally, use the grout brush to clean the engravings and other hard-to-reach areas, rinsing away all residue and buffing the headstone dry with a clean cloth.
With a little elbow grease, your loved ones granite headstone will look as good as new.
How to clean Slate, Limestone and Sandstone Headstones
These headstones require a bit less force but still need to be treated with care.
Gently use a soft bristle brush to clean the gravestone, taking extra care with the type of stone it’s made of.
Avoid directly scraping the debris as it’s very easy to accidentally scratch the surface and cause visible damage. Also, be aware that slate is prone to flaking. Use a minimal amount of pressure while scrubbing the headstone all over, including the inside.
What to avoid when cleaning a headstone
Metal scrapers, brushes with metal bristles, and abrasive tools create permanent scratches and grooves in the stone’s surface, irreversibly damaging the headstone’s appearance and structural integrity.
Bleach, ammonia, and harsh detergents chemically react with stone materials, causing discoloration, deterioration, and weakening of the stone’s surface. These chemicals can also dissolve the natural minerals within the stone, leading to long-term degradation.
Power washers and power tools apply excessive force that erodes the stone’s surface, potentially dislodging loose material and destroying delicate carved details. The intense pressure can also force water deep into the stone’s pores, leading to internal damage during freeze-thaw cycles.
Acidic cleaning products dissolve calcium carbonate, a primary component in many headstone materials, particularly marble and limestone. This dissolution causes etching, surface erosion, and can completely erase inscriptions over time.
Other issues
Additionally, it’s important to be aware of other issues related to headstones and gravestones.
Public burial sites are inspected regularly for issues and instability, and local councils must inspect memorials every five years for safety.
Contact details should be kept up to date for communication on repairs, and a National Association of Memorial Masons (NAMM) -accredited supplier like Haven Memorials should be used for proper construction and installation.
Memorial insurance can also cover accidental damage, subsidence, theft, or vandalism.
When cleaning gravestones, stay aware of the type of material and use the appropriate cleaning product. Natural stone should be treated differently than marble, and moss should be removed regularly to prevent marks and damage.
Insurance
You can help protect a headstone or gravestone from accidental damage, subsidence, theft, or vandalism with the right memorial insurance.
Depending on the type of stone, marble headstones and granite headstones may require different types of coverage.
Insurance policies typically cover the cost of repairs as well as cleaning and maintaining the headstone or gravestone. Most policies also offer coverage for damage caused by vandals, animals, and the elements.
When shopping for memorial insurance, be sure to ask about the coverage limits and any exclusions that may apply. It’s also important to research the reputation of the company to ensure they have a history of delivering on its promises and honouring claims.
With the right insurance, you can rest assured that your loved one’s headstone or gravestone will be appropriately cared for and preserved for generations to come.
Get in touch with our team to enquire about insurance for your loved ones memorial.
Removing mosses and mould
Removing mosses and mould from headstones and gravestones is essential for preserving their condition and keeping the memorial intact. Moss, lichen, and other growths can cause damage to the stone and its engravings, so regular maintenance is important. Here are some tips to help keep headstones and gravestones clean:
- Wet the moss with water
- Gently use a plastic scraper to remove the moss
- Regularly remove moss to prevent marks and damage to the stone
Address mould promptly to prevent further deterioration.
Renovating and repairs
You should seek professional advice on repairs for your headstone or gravestone, particularly if it’s made from granite, marble, or limesto
Frequently Asked Questions
How do you remove stains from a headstone?
Removing stains from a headstone can be a difficult task. To tackle the issue, start by cleaning the surface of the headstone with a soft bristled brush and warm water. For more stubborn stains, use a headstone cleaning spray (available from any of our shops) and allow it to soak for a few minutes before washing it off.
Once you’ve removed stains from your headstone, you’ll want to clean it without damaging the surface. The best way to do this is to understand the headstone materials and use specific cleaning processes above accordingly.
What is the best thing to clean a headstone with?
Below is a comprehensive list of the best supplies for cleaning headstones:
- A bucket and clean water
- Gloves suitable for use while cleaning
- Soft clean rags
- A wooden or plastic spatula or a non-metal scraper
- A soft, non-metal brush for gently scrubbing
- A toothbrush for cleaning grout
Remember to be respectful and careful when cleaning headstones and gravestones.
Can you clean a headstone with just water?
While it’s possible to clean a headstone with just water, it isn’t the most efficient way to do so as it may not be able to remove all of the dirt and debris. Cleaning a headstone with just water can be a good option if the cemetery doesn’t allow any other way to clean the surface of the stone.
However, if the headstone has a stubborn stain, then using a combination of water and a mild headstone cleaning agent is the best way to remove it. Water alone isn’t always enough to get rid of the stain, and using a cleaning agent may be necessary to ensure that the surface of the headstone is clean and protected.
How Often Should I Clean a Headstone?
For optimal care of your loved one’s headstone, clean it every six months. Cleaning can help preserve the stone and honour the memory of your loved one. You can do this yourself or contact us to carry this out for you every 6 months.
What cleaning products damage headstones?
Never use:
- Wire brushes or metal scrapers
- Bleach or chlorine-based cleaners
- Household cleaning products
- Pressure washers
- Vinegar or acidic solutions
- Abrasive materials like sandpaper
- Ammonia-based cleaners
- Industrial solvents
- Muriatic acid
- Steel wool
These materials can cause permanent damage to the stone’s surface, erode inscriptions, and accelerate deterioration. Only use cleaners specifically designed for headstones or a mixture of water and non-ionic soap when cleaning memorial stones.
How to Protect and Maintain a Headstone After Cleaning?
Regular inspection and preventive measures help maintain a headstone’s appearance and structural integrity:
- Never use sealants or treatments without confirming their compatibility with the stone type
- Apply a stone sealer every 2-3 years to protect against moisture and environmental damage
- Remove leaves, debris, and organic matter regularly to prevent staining
- Trim surrounding grass and vegetation to reduce moisture retention
- Check for cracks, chips, or loose parts during each visit
- Keep the base clear of soil buildup to prevent water accumulation
- Avoid placing metal decorations directly on the stone to prevent rust stains
- Remove winter wreaths before spring to prevent staining from decomposing materials
- Document the headstone’s condition with photos annually to track any changes
Which Headstone Materials Are Most Low-Maintenance and Easiest to Clean?
Granite headstones require the least cleaning and maintenance due to their non-porous nature and exceptional durability. High-quality black and gray granite particularly show less dirt and weathering compared to lighter colors. Polished granite surfaces further reduce maintenance needs by resisting moss, lichen, and environmental staining.
Other low-maintenance options include:
- Bronze plaques on granite bases
- Stainless steel markers
- Polished marble (though slightly more maintenance than granite)
Regular rainfall typically provides adequate natural cleaning for these materials, requiring only occasional gentle washing with water and mild soap every few years to maintain appearance.
Conclusion
To keep your headstone or gravestone in top condition for years to come, it’s important to understand the best methods and safety precautions when cleaning and maintaining it. With this comprehensive guide, you’ll have all the information you need to do the job right.
From removing moss and mould to renovating and repairs, you can rest assured that your headstone or gravestone will remain in pristine condition and be passed on for generations.